15 Things People Who Bank from Their Breakups Do


What you do determines how you move on from your breakup

People who bank from their breakup do a number of things that the majority of people who experience breakup don't do. 

Here are 15 things people who bank from breakups do:

15. They choose to be grateful no matter what.

People who bank from breakup refuse  to wallow in self pity, blame, guilt or shame. Instead they are grateful for what they take away from their breakup. They live in a space of gratitude and count their blessings. They count it all joy no matter what. 

14. They take responsibility for  their life, their goals and their dreams.

People who bank from breakup do not blame others, rather they take responsibility for themselves. Their happy, their goals and dreams are 100% their responsibility. The only person they are responsible for is themselves.

13. They see their breakup as an opportunity to live a better and fuller life.

People who bank from breakup see their breakup as a blessing, as a new lease on a better life. Their breakup is an opportunity to write their own ending. Their breakup may mark the end of their relationship, but it's really a new beginning. Their breakup is their wake up!

12. They refuse to let their breakup best them or break them.

People who bank from breakup never let their breakup take control. They are in the driver's seat, not their breakup. They take control of their breakup. They boss their breakup. 

11. They keep it positive.

People who bank from breakup keep their focus on things that are positive. They practice positive self-talk, they use affirmations to keep them mind on things that serve them. Revenge, anger, negativity, harboring any ill will or feelings towards their ex is not an option.

10. They enjoy finding ways to bank from their breakup and earn money.

People who bank from their breakup make it a habit to make and earn more money. They change their mindset around money and their relationship with money. Their focus is on  emotional and financial independence, stability and security. Their breakup is their path to profit. 

9. They take charge of their breakup and own it.

People who bank from their breakup own it. Regardless of the circumstances, who did what to whom, who is at fault they take charge of them self and their part. They are over it and on from it. When their breakup gives them lemons, they make lemonade.

8. They mine their breakup for valuable lessons, insights and golden nuggets.

People who bank from breakup learn the lessons and move on. They believe  that their breakup happened for a reason and they are happy to share the lessons they've learned. They understand that they have a story that another person needs to hear and is waiting to hear. They find the teachable moments in their breakup. We are all each other's teachers. 

7. They use their breakup to help others.

People who bank from breakup realize that they had a breakup, but their breakup is not theirs. Their breakup is really about helping others using their own breakup experience. They know that their breakup has value and can be used to help and serve others. They share their story as a testimony to others.

6. They make themselves a priority in their life.

People who bank from breakup put themselves first in their life. They choose themselves over their breakup. They make space in their life for more. They use their breakup to reinvent themselves, re-prioritize, reset and reboot their life. 

5. They rescue themselves.

People who bank from breakup take their breakup into their own hands and are their own rescue. They step up and deal with the hand they've been dealt. They handle their breakup like a boss. 

4. They take control of their finances and their emotions.

People who bank from breakup learn ways to manage and master their emotions, they operate from a place of awareness and respond to situations mindfully instead of reacting. They upgrade their knowledge, skills and their money mindset so that they can make better financial decisions. They are proactive when it comes to their finances.

3. They create a new vision for their life and chart a new course.

People who bank from breakup embrace a new dream for themselves. They look at the life they want, not the life they had. They set bigger and bolder goals for their life. They set out the become the best version of themselves and to live their best life in spite of their breakup. 

2. They think about their breakup differently.
People who bank from breakup view their breakup from a different perspective. They view it from a position of strength not weakness. Their breakup happened for them, not to them. They don't define themselves by their breakup. Their breakthrough and their blessings are in their breakup.They find their purpose in their pain.

1. They see their breakup as a blank check.

People who bank from breakup treat their breakup as a bankable asset that they can cash in.  It has high currency value. They decide not to waste their breakup or leave their breakup empty handed. They channel their energy and focus on leveraging the cash value of their breakup. They choose to bank from their breakup instead of being broken by their breakup. 

Bonus: They invest their time and energy in things that nourish and serve them spiritually, emotionally, mentally, physically and financially.

People who bank from breakup choose how they invest their time and what they focus on. They keep their past and their breakup behind them. They focus forward on what they want in their life.  They create new daily routines and practices that elevate their day. They cultivate habits that allow them to show up in their life powerfully and purposefully. 

Here's the bottom-line...

You have to decide you want to bank from breakup. That’s it. So, the  only way to find out is to commit and do it. The most powerful gift we have is the gift of choice. The bottomline is that you choose how you will move on from your breakup. You had a breakup, but you are not your breakup! You can choose to use your breakup for good, or you can let your breakup take you down like in a hostile takeover. The choice really is yours.

Will you Bank from Your Breakup or Will you be Broken by your Breakup? Are you ready?