Breakups are hard. They rock us to our core. They turn our lives upside down. They often devastate us spiritually, emotionally, mentally, physically and financially. A major part of banking from breakup is MINDSET.

Before you can bank from breakup there are some major keys that are crucial to first understand. Here are the 12 core mindshifts of people who bank from breakup:

Mindshift #1 - They have a vision beyond their breakup

They create the highest and grandest vision of their life. This new vision pushes them forward into the best version of themself. They believe they deserve the better, they are worthy of the best and are meant for more. Anything less than the best is not good enough. 

Mindshift #2 - They believe there is a reason for their breakup and a purpose for their life
They believe they were born on purpose, for a purpose,  with a purpose and that there'is a divine plan for their life. They know they're on the planet for a higher purpose and their breakup was not by chance. Their purpose is in their breakup.

Mindshift #3 - They live from their truth
They live their truth. They know their breakup happened for a reason. They use their breakup experience to their advantage to strategically leverage their breakup. They stand up and step up in their life. They don't play the victim. 
Mindshift #4 - They're honest with themselves
They accept their situation and move on. They don't hold on to the past. When it's over it's over. They don't get caught up in the blame-shame game. They realize that if something is not meant to be  there is nothing they can do about it. They have no control over that. They only person they can control is them self.
Mindshift #5 - They believe they are better than their breakup
They take the stance that they become what they believe. They believe that they can move beyond their breakup and live a bigger and bolder life without their ex. They believe that they're whole and complete just the way they are.
Mindshift #6 - They're the captain of their own ship
They have faith that there's more for them on the other side of their breakup. They're the captain of their ship and have the power to choose how they chart their breakup. They see their breakup as a setup for their come up. They trust that they can prosper in spite of their storm! They are faithful.
Mindshift #7 They trust they are meant for more
They don't define them self by their breakup. They had a breakup, but they are not their breakup.  In their breakup is their blessing. See they their breakup as an opportunity to course correct and change their life for the better. They know they are meant for more. 
Mindshift #8 They have the power to change
They understand that the only person they have the authority and power to change is them self. They have the power to choose how they move forward after their breakup. They are empowered and self-determined. Their life is theirs and theirs alone. They own it. They are 100% responsible for their life. They believe there is power and purpose in their breakup.
Mindshift #9 Their breakup is their master teacher
From the wounds of their breakup is their greatest wisdom. They see their breakup  as their master teacher. Their breakup leaves clues. Hidden within their breakup are some of their most profound life lessons and key teachings.
Mindshift #10 They can be successful after breakup
They believe that they can bounce back from breakup, bigger, better and bolder than ever. They know that they can bank from their breakup in all areas of their life. They use their breakup to build them, not break them. The choice ultimately is their. In their mind their breakup is a blank check and it is up to them to decide how they will cash it.
Mindshift #11 Their breakup is a way to serve others
They know that their breakup is not theirs. But that it is a vehicle to help someone else who may be going through a similar experience. Their breakup is a light for someone. The know that someone needs to hear their breakup story and is waiting to hear it. Their lessons are lessons for someone else. From their place of pain they are able to help and be of service to others.
Mindshift #12 Their breakup has lifetime value
The see the value in their breakup. They are able to mine their breakup for the lessons and the pearls. They often find their purpose in their breakup. Out of their breakup they find their strength and their gifts that they can share with the world.  
Bonus Mindshift: They see their breakup as a blessing
Their breakup is there to teach them so that they can be there for someone else. Their story is powerful and can be used as a source of encouragement for someone else.  

At the end of the day...
We are all here to use our lives to be of service to others. We are here to teach others through our stories, our life lessons and our experiences, the good, the bad and the ugly. There is beauty in the breakup. You ready? Click here.