But there are 4 things you have control over, that you are free to do. Often times during a breakup we tend to give up our power and play the victim. But the truth of the matter is you have more power than you realize. Sure, it sucks to be dumped and you don’t want to be single. Here’s the thing: 

You are free to Decide

You get to decide how you handle your breakup. Yes, the choice is 100% yours. You can either let your breakup break you or you can let it build you. No one can make you do or feel something that you don’t consent or give permission to. Your feelings, actions and decisions are your responsibility.

Your Mission: Decide right here, right now that you want to bank from your breakup.

You are free to Dream

Yes, your relationship has ended. But it doesn’t mean your dreams have to end with your relationship. You had a breakup that is a fact. But you still have your dreams. Your breakup is an opportunity to create new dreams and a new vision for your life. Your dreams, goals and vision are your responsibility. No one can dream new dreams for you or set new goals or a vision for you. That is all you.

Your Mission: Write a new vision for your life.

You are free to Declare

You get to take a stand and declare what you will do, what you won’t do, how you will move move on from your ex and get past your breakup. Declare positivity in and over your life. Do not give negativity to take root in your life. You had a breakup. Ok! But you still have your voice. You are not meant to be broken. Remind yourself of this everyday. You are meant for more. There is a reason you were born. There is a gift that only you can share with the world.

Your Mission: Declare what you want more of in your life moving forward.

You are free to Design

You get to design your life moving forward. You can’t change the past. You can choose to live your life forward, not backward. Holding on to your past, only holds you back. The great news is you can design your future. Since the future has not happened yet you get a say in how to shape it and create it. You are the architect of your future. Every day you are given 86,400 seconds (24 hours) to deliberately design your future. That is 168 hours per week. Your future is in your hands. You are more than capable of building an amazing future for yourself.

Your Mission: Design your future. On a sheet of blank paper write down all the things you want to see in your future.

You are free to Dedicate

You get to dedicate your time, energy and effort to becoming your best self, living your best life and banking from your breakup. Banking from Breakup only works if you do. You have to be all the way committed and dedicated to elevating your life and making yourself a priority in your life. What you focus your attention on expands and grows. Focus on your dreams and your happiness and watch your life change in ways that you could only imagine.

Your Mission: Dedicate yourself to building up from your breakup.

The bottom-line is you have control over your decisions, your dreams, how you design your life what you declare in your life and what you dedicate or commit yourself to. That’s all you!

You deserve to have more, do more, be more…just more! More joy, more fun, more happiness, more money, more freedom, more financial and emotional independence, security and stability, more strength, more power, more resiliency.

What you do with your breakup is your choice. How you do your breakup is up to you. You hold the power to bank from your breakup. You ready?