Banking from Breakup is not for everyone. Some people just are not ready yet. They’re still caught up in the grip of their breakup. They’re breakup has them by the neck. They’re paralyzed by their breakup. They are drowning in their breakup. The thing is everyone handles their breakup differently. There is no right or wrong way to do a breakup. There is no better or less better way. There is just the best way for you. You decide what that way is.

Banking from breakup is just one way. It is by no means the only way. Personally, it was just the way that I chose to deal with my breakup. I did not want my breakup to derail me from my destiny. It had already distracted me from my life, my health, and my finances. So, I just refused to be that person who let her breakup win and dominate her. I chose not to let my breakup crush me. Not on my watch.

Now, if you’re ready to boss your breakup and get the upper hand then banking from breakup may be for you. There are no guarantees. But what I do know is that if you want to change your life and do your breakup differently than the normal customary way of doing breakups…keep reading.

Real Talk: Is it easy? No. Is it doable? Yes. Does it take time, energy and effort? Yes. Is it worth it? YES!!!  Why, because when you are living in alignment with your purpose you come alive to the potential and possibilities of your life. Cashing in on your breakup is just icing on the cake. Banking from breakup gives you choices and options. There’s great power in choosing how you do your breakup and how you benefit from it. They may have broken up with you, but you get to determine how you cash that blank check your ex has basically given you.

In order to Bank from Breakup there are 6 absolutely essential must-haves.

Must-have #1

Awareness is “the ability to know, perceive, feel or be cognizant of an event or situation.” It is the state of being conscious of something. Awareness gives you choice. When you operate from a place of awareness you get to choose how you respond to a situation. Take that in for a moment. You have the power to choose. That is powerful.

They say that knowledge is power. I believe awareness is power. When you are aware of something, you then have the power to change it. You can’t change something that you are not aware that you’re doing. There is no greater position than taking the blinders off and living your life in full, total awareness and exercising your power of choice. You can’t change your past or your breakup. But awareness lets you choose your present and create a different future.  Awareness helps you to bank from your breakup. So, choose to live in awareness.

Must-have #2

Mindfulness is “the quality or state of being conscious or aware of something while suspending judgment”. It is “observing the moment-to-moment awareness of one’s thoughts, feelings, and sensations while maintaining a nonjudgmental attitude.” When you focus your awareness on the present you are able to tap into you’re your mind, body and spirit wisdom. When you are able to be mindful of and acknowledge your thoughts, emotions, feelings and bodily sensations without reacting, but observing them with out judgement of right or wrong you remain in control. It is when you react you give up your power and control. Banking from Breakup requires you to be mindful of what you feel, think, experience in your body, mind and spirit so you can operate from a place of strength, power and control. According to research being mindful is one of the quickest was to control stress, arrest negative thoughts, past memories, feeling and emotions. It also helps to relieve anxiety, increase your self-esteem and boost your self-confidence. Will share more on this in upcoming blogs.

Must-have #3

Tenacity is being very determined. It is about being fearless, not giving up, never quitting and sticking to it. People who bank from breakup are driven and persistent. They persevere no matter what. They are ready for this moment. They are in it to win it.  They know they are meant for more, they want more so they are prepared to do more to make the changes they want to see in their life.

Must-have #4

Resourcefulness is your “ability to find quick and clever ways to overcome difficulties”. Banking from Breakup requires you to be resourceful in order to achieve your goals. Here’s the thing your goals don’t work unless you do. Bottom line, goals don’t achieve themselves. The key is to be resourceful no matter what. It is easy to get frustrated when we can’t figure something out. Our immediate reaction is to give up. But the difference with someone who is wants to bank from their breakup is they will find a way. They will not let the little things frustrate them or get in the way of what they want.

Must-have #5

Focus is the act of concentrating your mind or attention on something. Being able to focus is so important. Without focus you fall back into old habits, patterns of behaviors and thinking. Focus is what allows you to stay the course. When you lose focus, it derails your efforts and actions. As the expression goes, where the mind goes, the body follows. Without a focus your mind, thoughts and attention are scattered, you are less productive and you end up procrastinating. When you set your mind, focus and attention on banking from breakup, you will show up and take the necessary actions to do just that.

Must-have #6

Commitment is being dedicated to a cause or activity. Being interested on the other hand is about having a curiosity about something. See the difference. You see when you are just interested in doing something you will make every excuse in the book. You will put the “P” in procrastination. However, when you are committed to doing something you will do what ever it takes. People who bank from breakup are committed. They are all-in. They are ready, willing and motivated to do what ever is necessary to reach their goal.

So, are you interested in banking from your breakup? Or are you committed to banking from your breakup? Click here to find out what it takes