What is Banking from Breakup™

Banking from Breakup™ is the first of its kind. It is a new and revolutionary approach to doing breakups. I know that sounds weird. Right?! How do you use such a painful experience and benefit from it? That’s where the Banking from Breakup™ proprietary coaching approach comes in.

Whether you were an unmarried couple, dating, common-law or a married couple you can bank from breakup.

You have to decide you want to bank from breakup. That’s it. The most powerful gift we have is the gift of choice. The bottomline is that you choose how you will move on from your breakup. You had a breakup, but you are not your breakup! You can choose to use your breakup for good, or you can let your breakup take you down like in a hostile takeover. The choice really is yours.

Think of it this way, you get to write the ending. Take that in for a moment. Just sit with that. That’s so powerful. You have the power to decide. You decide how you will do your breakup. You’re in control. It’s all you. Now is the time to step into your power and own it.

Banking from Breakup™ is not just about money. It is not a “show me the money” get rich quick scheme or magic bullet that will make all your financial worries and stress disappear with the snap of a finger or a wave of a magic wand. There is much more to it. Banking from Breakup™ works if you do. You can bank as much or as little as you choose.  If you commit to doing the work. It can work for you. Banking from Breakup™ is your game plan for banking on yourself, banking in your life and banking from your breakup.

The Story Behind Banking from Breakup™

It all started with the question, “What would happen if I banked from my breakup?” Weird right? I know! But that was the experiment that marked the start of my very own Banking From Breakup adventure. This became the catalyst for the #BANKINGFROMBREAKUP movement which came about as a result of my own breakup after a long-term “situationship” came to an end in a painful and unexpected way. 

I figured what did I have to lose? Now, I could have allowed my breakup to break me. But instead I decided to use it to build me. I felt that I shouldn’t leave my breakup empty handed. And I didn’t intend to! That was the beginning of Banking from Breakup™.

I help women leverage their breakup and use it to strategically bank from it in 5 core areas of their life i.e.spiritually, emotionally, mentally, physically and financially.

Why I Care?

When you’re caught in the emotional hurricane of a breakup you are distracted from your life and disconnected from yourself. I know I was. As a result the world is missing out on your gifts and your genius. The unique thing that you were put on this earth to do. That thing that only you can bring into the world. Banking from Breakup™ is all about helping you rediscover your gifts. Sometimes our gifts reveal themselves through our most painful and difficult experiences. Strange. Mine did.

You were born ON PURPOSE, FOR A PURPOSE  and WITH A PURPOSE.  You owe it to yourself to discover your purpose and to tap into your purpose.

I believe the key to getting over a breakup fast is to have a new vision, new goals, bigger dreams and a bolder why for your life. When you connect to something bigger than yourself or outside of yourself it pulls you forward towards your purpose. It becomes your north star, your compass. I know because I have done it in my own life. The key is to trust yourself and trust the process. Just know it takes time. But you can do it if you want it bad enough. 

The worst thing is to let your breakup derail you from your destiny. Now is the time to start a new course, a new adventure in your life and just do you. Find you. Better yet, create a new you. Become the best and highest version of yourself.

Banking from Breakup™ may be for you if:

  • You're ready to own your breakup and move on.

  • You're committed to yourself and doing whatever it takes to get the results you want in your life.
  • You’re ready to go after a better life.
  • You're ready for personal growth, change and transformation.
  • You're ready to live your best life and become the best version of yourself.
  • You're ready to work on you and make you the priority in your life.
  • You're ready to say yes to yourself and to your life.
  • You're ready to bank from your breakup and play a bigger game.
  • You're ready to take off the masks and get real with yourself.
  • You're ready to accept the invitation and take the challenge to step up in your life.
  • You're ready to rediscover yourself, who you are, who you want to become.
  • You're ready to reclaim your power, take back your crown and reign in your life.

Banking from Breakup™ may not be for you if:

  • You're freaking out thinking about what your ex might be doing or not doing and who their doing it with.

  • You're still stalking your ex on social media.

  • You're wondering if your ex is with someone new and doing all the things they did with you with them.
  • You’re not ready to breakup with your breakup.
  • You're still obsessing and ruminating over your ex.
  • You want to exact some kind of revenge on your ex.
  • You’re not ready to commit to changing your life.
  • You feel like there is nothing you can do.
  • You keep dwelling on the past, the "what-ifs", the "I should've", and the "if only I".

  • You're still wrapped up in the regret-self-hate-blame-game.
  • You're okay with the way things are in your life for now.
  • You're comfortable in the discomfort of your comfort zone.
  • You're still bitter and angry over the breakup.

 If this sounds like you, you're just not there ye. And that's okay. We all handle breakups differently and in our own way. It takes time to get over a heartbreak. The truth is Banking from Breakup™ is not for everyone. It's for those of you who are serious, 100% committed and ready to bank on yourself, bank in your life and bank from your breakup. If you're willing and motivated to show up, put in the work with expert guidance and support and invest in yourself you can do this.

Banking from Breakup™ is about:

  • Creating  a new vision for your life.
  • Evaluating your life’s purpose.
  • Setting a new course in your life and mapping out a new destination.
  • Cultivating new habits and routines that serve who you are right now.
  • Purging your space and creating an environment that uplifts you.
  • Developing new daily practices ie. spiritually, emotionally, mentally, physically and financially.
  • Practicing self-care, making  yourself a priority and putting yourself first in your life.
  • Reclaiming your identity, your power, your life, your emotions, and your finances.
  • Designing your Banking from Breakup™ Extraordinary Life Blueprint.
  • Getting back in the driver's seat of your life and taking responsibility for your life.
  • Setting and achieving new goals and daring to show up for yourself.
  • Cashing in on your breakup and smiling all the way to the bank.
  • Shifting your money mindset, writing a new money story and creating a money map.

To be super clear...

Banking from Breakup™ is not about your ex. Let’s be very clear here. It’s not about ex bashing, name calling, harboring hate, animosity, negativity, judgement, shaming, blaming, seeking revenge, guilt, complaining, ranting, raving, ruminating, “whoa is me” pity partying, whining, obsessing over your ex, making excuses, or being emotionally caught up with your ex. You can’t bank from breakup if you’re focused on your ex. It is impossible. 

Banking from Breakup™ is all about YOU. It’s about taking 100% responsibility for your life, owning your breakup and mining it for all the breakup gold and the blessings it has. I know that might sound strange. But it’s all about what matters to you. It’s about using your breakup to serve you not slaughter and slay you. I know because my breakup could have broken me. 

Adapted from: The Banking from Breakup Starter Kit and Primer™ 

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