Be unapologetic. The more you can be unapologetic about your breakup, the easier it becomes to get over it. Because you are not longer preoccupied and obsessed with trying to figure it out, get all the answers  where things went wrong or what happened. You're not siting around waiting for your ex to give you closure or wasting your time for an apology you know you're not going to get. Essentially, you've come to terms with things, you're ok with it and you are not letting it dictate your life. You've made up your mind to just deal. Done! Now it doesn’t happen overnight. It does take time. And everybody’s process is different. No two breakups are exactly alike. Some are better than others and some are just the absolute worst. If you want to know more about how to be unapologetic about your breakup, then keep reading. It’s easier than you think.

There are so many definitions for the word. Here’s one, unapologetic can describe someone who simply refuses to apologize, not acknowledging or expressing regret, it also conveys a sense of strength. This was me after my breakup. I was not going to apologize for having a breakup, being ghosted or being single again at my age. One thing I told myself was that I was not going to have any regrets over my breakup. It happened. Moving on, next.

You either resonate with it or you don’t. It may not be in your character or personality and that is totally okay. With this breakup I decided to be unapologetic about it. The choice was mine. Younger me would have broke in a million tiny pieces because of a breakup. Fast forward, I am much older and much wiser. So, when life served me an unexpected breakup with a side of “ghosted fries”. I said ok, bring it on. I unleashed all kinds of “weapons of mass badassery”. No one was badly injured in the writing of this blog. Since I am not a violent person by nature, this was my way of taking back control over my life. Because, I refused to let my breakup break me.

What you might not know is I’m an extreme introvert, which many people find hard to believe because I’m a fire sign. That being said, call it a “quiet revolution”. I make noise quietly. Ok, not really because I have a whole blog about. By unapologetic I don’t me in your face rah-rah-rah, ranting raving or cussing up a storm. No, not that type of unapologetic, but more finding your voice again, reconnecting with who you are, not worry about what other people may say, being who you are, owning your breakup, not apologizing for it, expressing yourself without censoring your words, moving on like a boss, leaving your ex in the rear-view mirror of your life. Sorry, not sorry. At the end of the day, it’s really about reclaiming your throne, taking back your crown and reigning in your own life. You my friend are royalty.

Being unapologetic is not a physical act or gesture. It is a state of mind that you embrace, a decision you get to make everyday. It’s about not letting what happened to your relationship phase or bother you. A breakup should not interfere with you living your life. No person or relationship should rob you of your life and being living their best life. Your breakup should not hold you hostage. You hold the power. Your breakup was an event in your life, it is not the controller of your life. To be unapologetic about your breakup is to choose to live your life your way, on your terms, to show up and stand in your power. It’s your way of showing the world that your breakup didn’t break you and that your breakup doesn’t define you or your life.

Be unapologetic about your breakup. It’s your ace in your pocket. Think of it as your super hero cape, your superpower, your weapons of mass badassery. The thing is, your breakup happened. You can’t change it and that is ok. You’re ok (you will be okay). Everyday remind yourself that your breakup didn’t happen to you, rather it happened for you. Let this be a reminder to you that there is power in owning your breakup. Carry this message with you always. You are stronger than your breakup. A rejection is a redirection. We all hit road bumps in our lives and breakups just happen to be one of them. So onward and upward. Click here to learn more about the benefits of being unapologetic.  

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