“Superpower!? Really Lindy.” Yes, you heard that correctly. It may not seem like it. But trust me it is. Your breakup has superpowers. It all depends on what you do with it and how you use it. Breakups are hard and messy. They are all the evil things. But you can use your breakup to help you or hinder you. The choice is yours. Keep reading if you want to find out how your breakup is your superpower.

Breakups often knock the wind out of our sail. They are gut-wrenching and heart-crushing. Understand this, your breakup doesn’t define you. It is something that you have gone through or experienced in your life. But you are not your breakup. At the end of the day you are “insert your name”! A breakup has this way of showing you strengths you never knew you had. If you are willing to learn from your breakup and receive the gifts you can use it as your superpower. Strange but very true, but that is what I have done with Banking from Breakup. Truth, you are more powerful than you think!

Banking from Breakup is my superpower. I took my pain and channeled it into a strength. Here’s the thing, what I was not going to do was let my breakup best me. I refused to let my breakup break me.  So, I flipped the script and cashed in on my heartbreak. Sure it is not the typical way of handling a breakup. But I’m not one to do “typical, basic or regular” anyway. Never have been. I’ve always been different that way. 

There are so many things you can leverage from your breakup. You learn more about yourself. Which is priceless. Your focus is on you now. And you get to reconnect with and rediscover who you are. Other breakup superpowers include:

• unlocking and unleashing your superpower;
• finding your voice again; 
• reclaiming your sense of self and your identity; 
• creating a new vision for your life;
• being who you are and becoming who you are meant to be; 
• doing you and not worrying about what other people may say;
• knowing what you want and don't want in a relationship;
• owning your breakup, not apologizing for it; 
• expressing yourself without censoring your words;
• moving on like a boss and banking from your breakup; and 
• leaving your ex in the rear-view mirror of your life. 

There is so much that you can utilize. At the end of the day, it’s really about reclaiming your throne, taking back your crown and reigning in your own life. 

The beauty of breakups is that you get to choose how you move on and move forward in your life. A breakup only holds you back if you allow it to. My gran always said never let someone rent space in your head or your heard. That is prime real estate reserved for those who are worthy. Just know that what you do is 100% up to you. That is powerful. There is power in making a choice. As hard as breakups can be, you control what you do or don’t do. That’s on you! The power is in your hands. You call the shots. Your breakup bounce back is your responsibility. So own it. Be about it. Choose you. Live your live on your terms. This is your way of showing the world that your breakup didn’t break you and that your breakup doesn’t define you or your life.

There is no exact formula or recipe for getting over a breakup and moving on. But there is what you do or don’t do. Ultimately you decide. So tap into your superpower. Let it do some of the heavy lifting for you. “Superpower activate.”
Check back to find out what superheroes have to do with breakups. 

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